The church is open all day from dawn till dusk. SUNDAY MARCH 28TH 2004 FIFTH WEEK OF LENT |
Rest in Peace: We remember especially in our prayers Trish Leach's father Thomas, who died suddenly last weekend. Also Maura's mother Meg McKeown aged 93 who died peacefully last Saturday morning. And Scott Mounce aged 29 who was killed in Iraq last week, he was a relative of Jill Leach and Jan Mounce, both parishioners here. May they rest in peace. Amen.
Requiem Mass on Monday at 12.00 noon: This will be for Jenny who died on Sunday evening in Castle Hill, just around the time I was talking about her at St. Mary's. The family much appreciated this. There will be NO 9.00 Mass on Monday.
Birthdays: Geoff Land celebrated his *th Birthday on Thursday. A little bird tells me that Mona Dyas has a Birthday this coming week! Geoff and Mona's friend (and also mine), Judith Rowe had her Big 40th on Wednesday. Congratulations from us all!
Wedding Anniversaries: There are three couples celebrating next Sunday, April 4th. Marie and John Gallagher (40th), Teresa and Les Ulyatt (40th) and David and Sheila King (45th). We will be having a small celebration, drinks and nibbles, after the Saturday evening Mass, and you are all welcome to stay behind and celebrate with them.
Congratulations! Pride of place on the front page of the West Hull Advertiser was a photograph of our very own Megan Rawcliffe after winning the recorder duet with her friend, Lauren at the Kingston upon Hull Music Festival. Not only can she sing, she can play as well! Well done, Megan!
Peter Dyas writes: "May I offer my sincerest thanks to all the many members of our church who so kindly have chaperoned me to Masses, parish lunches, swimming club, Hull City AFC and Hull FC. It is very difficult when you can't drive but there was always someone at hand, and for that I am most grateful. Thankfully the worst is behind me and I'm back behind the wheel again."
Parish Spring Party: This takes place this afternoon from 3.00 until about 5.00 in the Priory Room. There will be food and entertainment (and me missing the Big Match, Man.U. V Arsenal. The things I do for you!). If you are of a certain age, please do come along. Transport can be arranged if needed.
Station Mass: Our final one for this Lent will be tomorrow, Monday, at Holy Name starting at 7.00 p.m. They've been very successful, not least our own last Tuesday, with a guest preacher! A big thank you also to the music group, gathered at very short notice, Chris, Dermot, Ella and James. And thank you also, and just as importantly, those who helped with the refreshments. It really was a lovely evening. (And we also celebrated Fr. Ross's 62nd. Birthday with some lovely gifts!).
Area Reconciliation Service: This year our Lenten Service will be at the Marist Church on Wednesday at 7.30 p.m. It would be lovely to see quite a few of you there.
"Rulers were made to be broken."
Cottingham Churches Together Lent Service: And we finish the series of Thursday evening services here at Holy Cross at 7.30 p.m. The theme is 'Victory'.
"The Passion of the Christ": I went to see it on Friday evening and will report my verdict this weekend. I had a short slot on Radio Humberside on Friday morning talking about it and people's reactions to it. Some other parishioners also went on Friday evening. It'll be interesting to compare notes! I saw the following in a paper during the week: 'A bank robber has turned himself in after watching Mel Gibson's The Passion of the Christ. Police in Palm Beach, Florida, said James Anderson gave himself up after being stirred deeply by the film depicting the last 12 hours of the life of Jesus. Mr. Anderson, who admits stealing £14,000 from a bank in December 2001, said the movie inspired him to come clean.' I'd better tidy out the confessional room in anticipation of big crowds!
Evensong at St. Mary's: I was well supported last Sunday evening, with about fifteen Holy Crossers in the congregation! They were noticed and welcomed by Fr. Seth. I don't think that I upset too many as they all shook my hand on the way out! Thank you again for supporting me in my hour of need! PS. Pat Brennan tried to get her own back for the Anglicans taking St. Mary's from us all those years ago! Ask her!
Survive-Miva Appeal: Founded in 1974, Survive-Miva is a Catholic Lay Association and Registered Charity, whose Patron in the Archbishop of Liverpool. We exist to provide one vital element for successful pastoral, health and educational work in developing countries mobility. We have over one hundred members, the vast majority Catholic lay men and women from all walks of life who give generously of their time to make appeals for funds at parishes throughout the UK. One of our own parishioners, Peter Watts, is one of them, and he'll be speaking to us next weekend.
"When the missionaries came to Africa, they had the Bible and we had the land. They said: 'Let us pray.' We closed our eyes. When we opened them we had the Bible and they had the land."
(Desmond Tutu, the Archbishop of Cape Town)
First Confessions: Tom Bean, Luke Dearey, Julia Lesny, Justyna Lasny, Eleaner McMillan and Bethany Scibberas will all celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation this coming Saturday morning at 10.00 a.m. here in the church. It would be nice to maybe see their Prayer Companions there as well? They'll need all the support they can get!
Parishioner of the Week: Actually there lots of candidates for the award, but this week it goes to John McNicholas for coming with me to collect the flowers for Mothering Sunday. He had a visitor staying with him but put Holy Cross first!!! Thanks John! (Your reward ? will be great in heaven!). Pat and John have daughter Clare and family over for the weekend, they're from Rochdale and Hull City played them on Saturday afternoon at the KC Stadium. As we go to print we don't know the outcome! Rochdale need all the points they can get to avoid relegation!
Hull Savoyards: What a lovely Concert Evening we had on Thursday. The first half consisted of songs from Gilbert and Sullivan's 'The Yeomen of the Guard' and the second was a selection of songs from the musicals, very nostalgic. If you closed your eyes you'd have thought you were listening to BBC 2's 'Sing Something Simple'. We raised £200 half of which we gave to the Savoyards to help with their expenses. Thanks again to the 'refreshment staff', Pat, Hazel, Tony, Jim and others. It was a wonderful three hours entertainment! We look forward to having them back next year to perform 'Trial by Jury'. The full dress production of 'The Yeomen of the Guard' will take place at Hull Grammar School, Cottingham Rd. on Saturday 22nd. Monday 24th and Tuesday 25th May at 7.30 p.m. and a Matinee on Sunday 23rd. at 2.00 p.m. Tickets: Adults-£6 with Concessions-£4.
Recommended Tradespeople: A service to our parishioners in trying to choose who to go to for jobs that need doing. Who can you trust? There is a list in the porch that have been recommended by you as honest and trustworthy and good. If you know of anyone else you feel we could add to the list, please let me know. (Or even anyone who should be taken off the list!).
Sick Parishioners: Please remember in your prayers: Tom Cleary, Sandra Stephenson, Mary and Paddy Falvey, Eileen Northolt (Margaret Trigg's sister-in-law), Betty Eagan, Lilian Fowlston, John Gavin, Louisa Brierley, John Gallagher's sister Teresa.
Parish Finances: They're good but the taxman still has money for us! All you need do is, if you give regularly and pay tax, sign a Gift-Aid form and for every pound you give Holy Cross, the taxman will give us another 28p. Last year, by doing this, we received almost £9,000 back. Not to be sneezed at! I have the forms and the boxes. Have a word with me. Remember, your new Offertory Box is in the porch, take it with you as you go home. They start on April 11th 2004.
Prayer Circle Intention for this coming Friday: "We welcome those who will be received into the Church, and especially those who will come in this Easter here at Holy Cross."
City Praise at the City Hall on Easter Sunday at 6.30 p.m. There is a notice with details in the porch. Tickets are free. Contact Diana if interested. (846555)
Race for Life: Diana is also looking for ladies to join her on this 4K event. You can walk, jog or run. It's for Cancer Research and will be on Sunday May 9th.
Full Gospel Businessmen's Fellowship International: (What a mouthful?). On Monday April 5th at 7.30 p.m. there will be a Dinner at the Jarvis Hotel and the speaker will be Bill Northmore, a professional comedian and singer who has an amazing story to tell. Book on 473489 or 845127. £9.50.
Parish Dinner: I've never seen anything being booked out so fast! Hurry up and don't be disappointed. All the details are in the porch with a selection menu. Cost is £11 and make the cheques payable to Holy Cross.
Parish Summer Outing: To Haddon Hall near Bakewell. There are brochures in the porch and on the noticeboard. Ray has organised it so it will be great! Cost - £22.50.
Monday of Holy Week: The "Riding Lights Theatre Company" is doing "The Passion" at All Saints Church in Hessle. For more information and tickets phone 646232. It's had excellent revues!
Anniversaries this coming week:
Saturday Mary Moss (Kath Shakespeare's mother) and Lily Sallis (Monica Cook's mother).
Sunday Les Coggin (Brian's dad) and Edward Brennan (Dermot's dad).
Tuesday Kenneth Culkin (Jean Rowland's brother) and Catherine Kemp (Jean's mother-in-law).
Wednesday Gladys Baker (Gerry's mother) and Jessie Wackett.
Thursday Mary Winifred Stephenson.
Saturday Emily Graves (Pat Brennan's grandmother), Helena Bradley, Bert Welch (Jean Dex's father) and Norah Priest.
Lourdes Youth Pilgrimage Meeting: We are having a meeting of youngsters and parent(s) this Friday at 7.00 p.m. in the 6th Form Centre at St. Mary's College. It's important that you be there. We now have twelve going from the parish including among the 'oldies' Ella Haswell, Katy Haswell, Terri Riddiough and Gwendoline Percival. And the rest? David Ridiough, Ellie Leach, Alex Dorsett, Rahel Busch, Ruth Halkon, Sarah Halkon, Georgia O'Connor and Catherine Leach.
Parish Council Elections: Last opportunity to vote today. There are some forms in the porch.
Marriage Preparation Course: This has now been condensed from four evening sessions down to a one day course, a lot easier for all concerned. Peter and Gwen O'Reilly lead the day and last weekend they had nine couples doing the course. All are from various parishes in the city and beyond, some even travelled from London and further. The feedback was excellent. There will be another course in May.
St. Margaret of Cortona: If you are interested in finding out more about her, contact Annie on 876955.
Congratulations to Lauren Burns and Sarah Ombler for their wonderful presentation on CAFOD last Saturday at Mass. They will do it at the 10.00 a.m. Mass in the near future.
Mass Intentions for the coming week:
Saturday 6.30 Agnes and George Smith (A)
Sunday 10.00 Edward Brennan (A)
Monday 12.00 Requiem Mass for Jenny Petherbridge
Monday 7.00 p.m. Station Mass at Holy Name
Tuesday 7.00 Canon Michael Davern (B)
Wednesday 9.00 Gladys Baker (A)
Thursday 9.00 Meg McKeown (RIP)
Friday 9.00 Elsie Murphy
Saturday 9.00 The Parishioners
Saturday 6.30 Wedding Anniversaries
Sunday 10.00 Thomas Goard (RIP) Trish Leach's dad
Day of Divine Mercy: Fr. White has asked me to advertise this event at St. Vincent's Church on Sunday 18th April from 12.00 4.00 p.m. with Exposition and Confessions all afternoon. Holy Hour and Benediction at 3.00 p.m. Everyone most welcome.
"Aspire not to have more but to be more!" Chris and Chris, thanks!
A True Story: "Callum (7) and I were walking past John the tramp sat at the bus stop. I gave him money, a fromage frais and sat down to talk. He said thanks for the money, he could get to Beverley to take a disabled woman a fairytale book. He gave Callum a BBC camera keyring. I told Callum John had no home and slept on park benches out in the cold. His wife and child had died and some people weren't as strong as others when sad things happened in their lives. 'Why can't he come and live with us, mum?' 'We've got no room,' I answered. 'We have, mum, I could sleep with you and dad and John could sleep in my bed in the middle room.' I thought about Jesus. 'You must become like a little child.' And also like the rich young man who walked away. And I felt sad."
Bishop Willie Walsh of the Diocese of Killaloe in Ireland said in an interview this week that the Church is often less than loving towards those whose lives conflict with official teaching. He mentions in particular homosexuals, unmarried couples and people who feel alienated by teaching on family planning. He sets out his belief that a loving Church must treat with respect, dignity, sensitivity and love those who are unable to live by its ideals. "The couple in an irregular union may well subscribe to the church teaching that marriage is a lifelong commitment, but may be unable to live out that ideal because one of them married at a very young age and found themselves in an intolerable relationship which they had to leave. Can we reconcile the ideal of marriage as a lifelong commitment and yet treat with respect and with tangible love the couple who are unable to live that ideal in their lives right now? Is it consistent with a Church which is forgiving, loving and compassionate to exclude them from full participation in the Sacraments of Penance and Eucharist? Precisely the same dilemma arises for many couples in relation to family planning." (A brave Bishop! Would that we had more of them, and priests too!)
The church is open all day from dawn till dusk. SUNDAY MARCH 21ST 2004 MOTHER'S DAY ME TO PREACH AT ST. MARY'S TONIGHT AT 6.30! |
Mother's Day: We keep Mother's Day on the 4th Sunday of Lent, Laetare Sunday (Rejoicing Sunday). Its history suggests that the early origins of the day seem to be about a visit to the cathedral, the mother-church but in the 1600's in England, where it is also known as Mothering Day, it was a day in mid-Lent for servants to go home to visit their mothers. They were expected to bring food gifts, in some places a simnel cake, (cf Sheila Levett), which of course could not be eaten until Easter. The American date, May 9th, the second Sunday of May, was fixed in 1914 after a campaign by Anna Jarvis to have her mother's wish made at Sunday School in 1878 for a memorial day for mothers. Anna began the campaign after her mother's death in 1905 and observing her anniversary on the second Sunday of May, suggesting wearing a red carnation if a mother was alive and a white one if she was dead. Even earlier in 1872, Julia Ward Howe, the writer of the words of the Battle Hymn of the Republic, sought a Mother's Day as a day for peace.
Birthdays: Steve Haswell had his Big 50 a few days ago! And it's also the birthday of Agnes Allahditta (Cuthbert) who was married to Dave here last September. Congratulations!
John Joins a Monastery: On arriving, the head monk said, 'Brother John, we are sworn to silence in here, but once a year you are allowed to utter two words.' The first year passed and the head monk asked John for his two words. John replied, 'I'm hungry.' 'Very well,' said the head monk, 'you will get more food.' The second year passed and Brother John was asked for his two words. 'I'm cold,' he said. 'Very well.' replied the head monk, 'you can have more blankets.' The third year passed and Brother John was called again to the head monk. 'I'm leaving,' he said without hesitation. 'Good,' replied the head monk, 'you've done nothing but moan since you got here.'
"If at first you don't succeed, pretend you weren't trying."
Counters this week: Anne and Geoff Land.
Next week: Teresa and Les Ulyatt. (Don't forget!).
LIFE Talk last weekend: "Dear Fr. Day, Thank you very much for allowing us to hold a LIFE Sunday in your church and also for the way you led up to Peter'' talk -very unusual and very moving. As I told you on the phone we collected £410.52 for which we are very grateful. We collected four names and addresses. LIFE HQ will be contacting these people in the near future and we hope that they will all sign up and become members of LIFE. LIFE HQ will send two letters (if necessary) before giving up. Would you please include a message of thanks from us in your next newsletter, and if you could add a reminder about returning the completed membership forms, that would be a great help. For anyone who missed Saturday or Sunday and who might wish to join LIFE I have left a few membership forms at the back of the church or they could ring/write me at 63, Ormonde Ave. Newland, HU6 7LT or telephone 472260. Every best wish, Margaret Crummay." PS. One of the ladies helping last weekend described Holy Cross Parish as "electric!" (Maybe it was the shocking parish priest!).
Parish Prayer Circle Intention for Friday: (The day after the Feast of the Annunciation): "We thank Our Lady for being our Mother and ask her to bring all the needs of her children to her Son."
Doctor's Orders: Carry Worry Beads to reduce stress. Researchers at University College London found that people who performed a 'visuospatial' task while watching a distressing video suffered fewer intrusive memories. The study focused on post-traumatic stress disorder, but it is thought that visuospatial tasks could help with other problems associated with intrusive images, including worry and insomnia.
Hull Savoyards: They are back again here at Holy Cross this Thursday at 7.30 p.m. with a varied selection of music from the shows and a bit of Gilbert and Sullivan. If you've seen them perform here before you'll know what a treat is in store. Please do support the evening. Tickets are £4 on the door and that includes refreshments. (Children half price).
Parish Council Meeting: At the AGM last Monday we said farewell to Linda Gillard as she passed the baton of Chairperson to Jim Norton. The review of last year was fascinating and we look forward to many more interesting events this coming year. Watch this space!
Area Station Mass: This Tuesday it is our turn to host the local parishes as we prepare for Easter. The turnout in the various parishes over the past few weeks has been excellent and I'm sure it'll continue this Tuesday at 7.00 p.m. There will be refreshments after the Mass to give us the opportunity of meeting with parishioners from the other churches. See you there, here!
Family Fast Total (so far): According to Leo, we have raised over £759 of which £528 was Gift Aided adding another £147 from the Taxman. And all that took was adding your signature to the envelope! It's that easy!
"A closed mouth gathers no foot."
Canon Gerry Cox: Requiescat in Pace: Bishop John Writes: "I write to inform you that Fr. Michael Dunn has accepted my invitation to be the new Episcopal Vicar for the Southern Vicariate in succession to Canon Gerry Cox. Fr. Michael will take up his five year appointment as from Easter Sunday. I am grateful to him for his willingness to take on this responsibility of service to the whole diocese, and in particular to clergy and people in the south of the diocese. This is also a moment to express once more my appreciation to Canon Gerry Cox for his generous service as the first Episcopal Vicar for the Southern Vicariate these past five years. I am particularly glad that in addition to his responsibilities at St. Charles, Canon Gerry will continue to play an important ecumenical leadership role within the City of Hull. With every good wish, Bishop John."
Hopefully Gerry can now enjoy a well-earned rest. He will remain at St. Charles and probably lose his assistant Fr. Michael Sellars in the near future, leaving him to do Hull Royal Infirmary on his own. A busy future looks in store for him still!
More Birthdays: Both Anne and son Julian Purdy have birthdays around this time. We may be just a tiny bit late!
Parish Finances 2003: Offertory Gift-Aided - £24,562.34
Offertory Non-Gift aided - £10,950.50
Tax Refunded - £8,559.16
Parish Assessment - £11,586 This is the money the diocese levies from the parish to help in the running of the diocese. Each parish is assessed differently. As you can see it's quite an amount we pay, almost one third of our total income! You can help by Gift-Aiding you weekly offerings. Think about it!
Rats to Clear Mines: A Tanzanian university is experimenting with rats to clear anti-personnel mines. Rats are economical, light and intelligent. Because of their well-developed sense of smell, they can replace dogs in the work of dismantling such mines. This could be a solution to a huge problem for developing countries. To buy such a mine at present costs about 7.5 Euro, to discover and dismantle it can cost up to 5,000Euro.
Monday of Holy Week: The "Riding Lights Theatre Company" from York are doing "The Passion" at All Saints Church in Hessle on Monday April 5th. For information and tickets phone 646232. From what I've heard it's an excellent production and the Riding Lights are a national institution.
Alpha 'Holy Spirit Day': Saturday April 3rd. This will take place in the Priory Room from 9.00 4.00 p.m. If you'd like to join us contact Diana on 846555.
Anniversaries this coming week:
Saturday David Farnworth (Carmen's husband).
Sunday Tom Courtney, John McAllister (Joan Gibson's brother).
Monday Hilda Codd (Eithne's mother-in-law) and Eileen Browne (Rosemarie's mother-in-law).
Tuesday Monica Mason (Chris Bailey's mother), Wilf Spaven and Sheila Batten (David's wife).
Thursday Frances Atkin (Mary Falvey's mother).
Saturday Mary Moss (Kath Shakespeare's mother) and Lily Sallis (Monica Cook's mother).
Sunday Les Coggin (Brian's dad) and Edward Brennan (Dermot's father).
Chinese Wisdom: "Families, when a child is born, want it to be intelligent. I, through intelligence having wrecked my whole life, only hope the baby will prove ignorant and stupid. Then he will crown a tranquil life by becoming a Cabinet Minister." (Su Dong-Po, 11th century).
The Eucharist and Migrants: Bishop Renato Ascencio Leon of Ciudad Juarez, Mexico, told delegates to the World Congress of Pastoral Care of Migrants and Refugees, "Participation in the Eucharist would not be real something vital would be missing if it did not culminate in a loving commitment to one's neighbour, especially to the poorest and most vulnerable. If they share the Eucharist, Catholics must go out to meet 'migrant Christs' who wander through the world carrying their pains and hopes, and parishes must be transformed into places of welcome as a faithful reflection of eucharistic living."
Coca Cola Sells Tap Water (and people will buy it!): Water is our lifeblood and a basic human right. Christian Aid, CAFOD, Oxfam and Water Aid and other charities are concerned that this basic human right is under threat. 5% of water services are currently supplied by the private sector. Water is profitable. Water supplies are to be handed over to big business the world over. Lend your support to ensure that the United Nations pledge to halve the proportion of people without access to safe drinking water by 2015 becomes a reality. Come along to Jameson Street on Saturday March 27th between 11.00 a.m. and 1.00 p.m. For more details contact Norah Hanson on 802814.
Sick Parishioners: Please pray for Lilian Fowlston and Betty Eagan, both 'escaped' from HRI this week! Also Linda and Mazz (special intention!). Maura Thomson's mother Meg, Mary and Paddy Falvey, Louisa Brierley, John Gavin, John Gallagher's sister Teresa, Sandra Stephenson and Dorothy Hood who this week was given the all-clear after her recent operation, no need for any chemotherapy!
Guest Preacher at St. Mary's: I saw my name in lights outside St. Mary's when I went to the Lent Service there on Thursday. The sign read: Evensong Sunday 6.30 p.m. Preacher Fr. Pat Daly from Holy Cross. And I thought that everyone knew me! The Lent Service this Thursday is at Christ Church on Endyke Lane at 7.30 p.m. and the theme is 'Transformation'. Sadly it clashes with the visit of the Hull Savoyards to Holy Cross.
Parish Council Meeting: Here in the house on Monday 22nd at 7.45 p.m. and the new members will be announced.
Parish Spring Party (for those of a certain age!): Sunday March 28th at 3.00 p.m. in the Priory Room. An opportunity to say 'thank you' to our more senior parishioners for all they contribute over the year, often quietly. Yes, it's you I'm talking about! So come along! There's a bit of a clash that afternoon. Man U. are playing Arsenal on the TV. God certainly doesn't make it easy arranging things like that!
Parish Dinner: Friday April 30th at Hessle Golf Club, Eppleworth Rd. There is a folder in the porch with a selection of menus. Please sign up as soon as possible, places are limited. The cost? £11, which is what we were charging when I came to Holy Cross nearly eight years ago! I see that already 38 people have signed up, after only one week!
Offertory Envelopes: The new sets are in the porch. Please take yours. As you can see from the Parish Finance bit opposite, those who gift-aid contribute another £8,559 via the taxman to the parish coffers. It's a real benefit to us as our assessment is £11,586.
Mass Intentions for the coming week:
Saturday 6.30 Eileen Palmer (A)
Sunday 10.00 Bridget Downey
Monday 9.00 Mary Gavin (A)
Tuesday 7.00 Sheila Batten (A)
Wednesday Communion Service 9.00
Thursday 9.00 Eileen Pickering's Intentions
Friday 9.00 Vin McKenna (RIP)
Saturday 9.00 The Parishioners
Saturday 6.30 Agnes and George Smith (A)
Sunday 10.00 Edward Brennan (A)
Summer Outing to Haddon Hall, near Bakewell, famous for its Bakewell Pudding (not tart!). Jane Austin wrote 'Pride and Prejudice' here. Haddon Hall now occupied by the Manners family since 1567, originally lived in by William Peveril, illegitimate son of William the Conqueror. Wonderful garden to visit and small museum. The cost will be £25.50 which includes entry to Haddon Hall, High Tea at the fabulous Hardwick Inn and all tips. Departure from the Green at 9.00 a.m. on Wednesday June 23rd. There are some information leaflets in the porch. Only take one if you are thinking of coming with us. Again, our thanks to Ray for arranging all this.
Holy Cross Cyber Church: www.jesuit.ie/livingspace This site contains delightful commentary and reflections on the Sunday Scriptures from an Irish Jesuit priest. The 'Making Sense of the Mass' link is also very helpful.
The church is open all day from dawn till dusk. SUNDAY MARCH 14TH 2004 THIRD SUNDAY OF LENT WEDNESDAY ST. PATRICK'S DAY |
Counters this week: David Cook and Barbara Marshall.
Next week: Anne and Geoff Land.
Prayer Circle Intention for Friday: "On this Feast of St. Joseph, we ask him to join in our prayers for 'The Year of the Family Consultation'. We pray that this initiative will be of great value to all our families and to the Church."
Lunch Club: This Wednesday at noon in the Priory Room, and maybe even with an Irish theme for St. Patrick's Day? I apologise in advance for my absence. I'll be at the lunchtime Mass at St. Charles' in his honour!
St. Patrick's Day Wednesday: Failte romhaibh! Dochas linn Naomh Padraig! There will be a special St. Patrick's Mass here at 9.00 a.m. At St. Charles' at 12.10 p.m. there will be the usual city celebration Mass for the feast followed by the blessing and distribution of shamrock. Afterwards there will be an Irish Celebration with lunch and music in the Parish Centre. Tickets £2.50 from Janet and Patrick Doyle on 343890.
Was he Paddy the Brit? Paddy the Breton? Paddy from Breatain Beag (Wales)? Does it matter? Paddy the missionary, the slave-child from God-knows-where, who answered the call to bring the good news to the Gael is the toast of the world on Wednesday. Paddy the foreign national has become Patrick the honorary Irishman, the man who spread the Word, and that Word was God in Jesus. So let's celebrate without losing the message in the celebration. The Church has an unfortunate reputation as a killjoy, which is ironic, since it brought us most of the festivals we have! The world would be a joyless place without religious festivals, and the Irish are as good as any at celebrating. Enjoy. Patrick would be the first to admit that both he and the faith he brought would be long forgotten if that faith had not been cultivated and passed on from generation to generation. The Irish people did not just keep the faith. They gave it away. In honouring Patrick, we honour all those passers-on of the faith as well. And who are they? You of course! Well done!
Radio Humberside and St. Patrick (Day). You can hear me on Sunday morning (today) at about 7.50 a.m. and again reviewing the papers on Wednesday morning at about 7.35 a.m. My annual fifteen minutes of fame!
Prayers for the sick: Please remember Betty Eagan in HRI recovering from an operation on Tuesday. Lilian Fowlston also in HRI after a little stroke. Maura Thomson's mother Meg slipping gently away over in Oldham. John Gavin suffering a bit with his dialysis treatment. Sandra facing more chemotherapy for the next six months. Mary Falvey, Louisa Brierley, Cynthia Smith and Elsie Murphy. John Gallagher's sister Teresa is terminaly ill near Nottingham. Her family have come back from Australia to see her. If you know of anyone whom you'd like adding to the list, please let me have their names. (We do have some success you know!).
"Jesus Christ Superstar." What a superb production by the youngsters of St. Mary's College during the week! Noisy, but it is a rock musical, colourful, great singing and dancing and playing to full houses for the four evenings! A real credit to the school and all who work there. And it was good to see some parishioners enjoying themselves there on Wednesday evening.
Station Mass: This Tuesday evening we visit the Marist Church for Mass at 7.30 p.m. There was an excellent turn out at St. Anthony's last Tuesday. There will be NO evening Mass here on Tuesday. If you'd like a lift, be at the church at 7.10 p.m.
Cottingham Churches Together for Lent: This Thursday we are at St. Mary's at 7.30 p.m. and the theme is 'Suffering'. I'm sure we'll not!
St. Mary's Evensong: I'm the guest preacher at St. Mary's in the village next Sunday at 6.30 p.m. Fr. Seth is reaching out and Ian Hill from the Methodist Church will preach the following Sunday. Do pray that the right person is appointed to succeed Canon Grigg. Whoever it is can be assured of a great welcome by all the churches in the village.
Parish Council AGM: The meeting will be in the house at 7.45.m. on Monday and everyone is welcome.
LIFE Talk: We welcome Peter Ainscough to our Masses this weekend to tell us a bit about the work of the LIFE organisation here in the city. LIFE would like to recruit new members, including non-active ones (whatever they are?).
Hull Savoyards: This well know local Amateur Operatic Society are back by popular request to perform here in the church on Thursday March 25th at 7.30 p.m. We do rely on you to advertise the concert and of course to come along as well and support it. The tickets are £5 including refreshments. Spread the word please!
S.V.P. News: "I am pleased to inform you that the student whose details follow has completed a training course sponsored by Holy Cross Conference, Cottingham. Student name Pradeep Kumar Sah. Course followed Computer Application. The nominating Indian Council Patna." Each year we try to sponsor at least two students. It costs very little and certainly makes a difference! Thank you again for all the support you give us during the course of the year. Les Ulyatt (President).
Fortieth Wedding Anniversary: Today, Sunday, Barrie and Shirley Easto celebrate 40 years together! And more good news! At Pentecost Barry will be received into the Church along with several others from our community. Please keep them all in your prayers. Don't rush away home after Mass, they are bringing along some 'goodies' for the celebration! ( A fool and his money are soon married C. Wells)
Sympathy to Clare O'Loughlin and Paul Harrington. Last Saturday night they parked on the main road during Mass. A drunk driver lost control, wrote Clare's car off and badly damaged Paul's. (Isn't God good? You make the effort to go to church and this happens!). I hope it doesn't put you two off coming?
"If at first you don't succeed, do it the way your wife told you to."
Senior Parishioners Party: Sunday March 28th in the afternoon. This is the opportunity for the parish to say thank you to our "Elders" for all your support and encouragement throughout the year. At what age do you become an "Elder"? I don't know and if in doubt, come along anyway! More next week.
School Transport Policy: A report by Mr. John Mager, Director of Lifelong Learning, east Yorkshire Riding Council, to the Cabinet of EYRC regarding Home to School Transport Policy includes proposals to end the provision of transport to denominational schools on the spurious grounds of 'negative impact on educational standards and community cohesion'. Such a move would, of course, bring financial savings. Mr. Ged Fitzpatrick, the Headteacher at St. Mary's College, asks that you write both to your MP and to EYRC to reject this proposal to end transport provision to denominational schools.
St. Mary's College Parent, Parish Partnership: An opportunity for parents, parishioners and teachers to meet informally and explore current issues in the education of our young people. It will take place on Wednesday 31st March 6.30 8.30 p.m..
"Developments at St. Mary's College" a presentation and informal discussion with Mr. Gerard Fitzpatrick, Headteacher and the Senior Leadership Team. Everyone is welcome and there will be refreshments.
Anniversaries this coming week:
Saturday Allen Harrison
Sunday Stanley Lord (Tony's father), Mary Shipley (M. Pidd's mother), Rose Dyas (Peter's mother) and John Campbell (Christine's husband).
Wednesday Patrick McPhillips (Eithne Codd's grandfather), Charles Watts (Peter's father), Agnes Lily (Dorothy Hought's mother) and Philip McGuire (Eithne's brother).
Friday Tom Rewston (Elaine Coggin's grandfather) and Harry Park (Jean Gray's brother).
Saturday David Farnworth (Carmen's husband).
Sunday Thomas Courtney and John McAllister (Joan Gibson's brother).
If you'd like any names including in the Parish Memorial Book, there are forms in the porch to help you.
Gift Aid Envelopes: Your Offertory Envelopes for the coming year are now available. They are in alphabetical order in the boxes in the porch. Remember, if you are a tax payer, by taking a set of envelopes and signing a Gift Aid form, we can reclaim from the Inland Revenue, up to 28p for every pound you give. An offer not to be sneezed at! If you'd like to find out more, just have a word with me.
Found in church: One black nylon wallet containing about £3 plus a James Bond Swipe Card from the National Science Museum!
Niluk and Tyrone: Saw this in the travel section of the paper last weekend The isle of Serendip as Sri Lanka was once known gave us the word "serendipity". The biggest surprise, though, is the people. The country is best known for a vicious 27-year civil war, which may lead you to suspect that they aren't going to be the nicest bunch you could meet. Wrong. They're heart warmingly friendly and the really baffling question is how such a gentle, welcoming lot could ever have lifted a gun in anger.
Walsingham Association Mass: St. Barnabas Cathedral, Nottingham on Saturday 3rd. April at 12 noon. The East Yorkshire Branch is taking a coach which departs from outside Debenhams at 9.00 a.m. To book a place (£10-members and £12-non-members) please ring Bessie Curtis on 782477.
Birthday Boy: It's Ben 'the donkey' Palmer's birthday on Thursday. Many happy returns!
Madrid Tragedy: Our thoughts are with Carmen who has been over home in Spain this past couple of weeks. We also think of parishioner Rob Bell and his family whose business is in Madrid and who travels there regularly. Peter Dyas's son David was visiting his girlfriend who lives in Madrid on the day of the bomb blasts and it wasn't till late in the day that they got confirmation that they were alright.
Parish Dinner: Friday April 30th at Hessle Golf Club.
We had a lovely evening there last year with excellent food. Yes, there are problems with access to the dining room, but we'll do our best to ensure everyone manages to get there. The cost is only £11 and there's a list in the porch for names etc.
Hull Daily Mail, Thursday, February 15th 1900
Hull Catholics' Merry Evening: "Considerably over 1,250 people gathered at the Assembly Rooms last night when the annual tea and entertainment in connection with St. Charles' Roman Catholic Church was held. The number is a tribute to the energy of the organisers. The Rev. Canon Sullivan was present as were Frs. Noone, Gatti, Dewe, Smith (Hedon), Davies (Mkt. Weighton), Kelly (Thirsk), Canon Wood (St. Wilfrid's), Canon Griffin (St. Mary's). The following ladies presented tables: Mrs. T. Farrell, Mrs. Walton, Mrs. Rippon, Mrs. Hildyard (Cottingham), Mrs. O'Brien, Mrs. Hainstock, Mrs. Bordas, Mrs. Simpson, Mrs. Gallicker, Mrs. Caley, Mrs. Iveson, Mrs. Dixon, Mrs. Consitt, Mrs. Atkinson, Mrs. Reichardt and the Misses Lambert, Parish and Welburn.
The musical programme had been arranged by Mr. Brogden no wonder the merriment was long and continuous. The various items fully demonstrated the fact that well-trained little ones can amuse elders. A 'Welcome' song and tambourine song and school drill by St. Gregory's girls and infants opened the proceedings. Then the children combined in a pretty floral festival or cantata, the various parts being taken by Flo Kidingham, Gwen Brogden, Monica Taylor, Julia Milson, Lily Buttery, Agnes Scanlan, Eliza Atkinson, Christiana Lawson, Beatrice Dawson and Louisa Wurr. The singing was very dainty and precise. Special mention may be made of Miss G. Brogden. Last night she was crowned "Queen", being greeted with "Long live our beauteous Queen." Eight little maids took part in a Neapolitan dance, their names being Winifrede Cornwall, Jessie Bellett, Margaret Geraghty, Ellen Harrison, Julia Milsom, Beatrice Danson, Gwen Brogden and Lily Campbell.
The second part consisted of selections by the Hull Banjo, Mandolin and Guitar Orchestra. Misses Smith, Asquith and Broughton contributed a banjo aria "Sentinel March", whilst Miss Smith gave "Broken Melody" on the mandolin. Miss Lena Parker sang "Yaller Coon", and Masters Porter and Healey supplied the boisterous side of humour. A number of children from St. Patrick's school sang and danced the Lancers, Highland Fling etc. Miss Foster and Mr. T. Fawcett were accompanists. The final item was a cinematograph exhibition. On the motion of Canon Sullivan, the performers were heartily thanked."
Two other bits from that edition: "Grim Death Reigned" A deeply distressing suicide occurred this morning. A cart driver lived in most humble circumstances with his wife. she died after a lingering illness on Tuesday, and he was disabled by an accident and depressed. On rising this morning, at the sight of the corpse of the wife laid out for the funeral to-day, he cut his throat with a carving knife, and when the mourners began to arrive during the forenoon, he was found lying on the hearthrug.
"Brevities For Busy Men" In a recent case of suicide the unhappy man knelt on railway lines. (No other comment!).
Mass Intentions for the coming week:
Saturday 6.30 David Eric Ledger
Sunday 10.00 Martin Murphy
Monday 9.00 Special Intention
Tuesday 7.30 Marist Church Vin McKenna
Wednesday St. Patrick's Day 9.00 Peggy Smith (A)
Wednesday 12.10 St. Charles' Charlie Watts (A)
Thursday 9.00 Dora Tulip (B)
Friday 9.00 Feast of St. Joseph Dennis Petty
Saturday 9.00 The Parishioners
Saturday 6.30 Eileen Palmer (A)
Sunday 10.00 Bridget Downey
I was HUNGRY and you formed a Debating Society to discuss it.
I was IMPRISONED and you just COMPLAINED about the crime rate.
I was NAKED and you debated the morality of my appearance.
I was sick and you thanked GOD for your health.
I was homeless and you preached to me about the shelter of God's love.
YOU SEEM SO HOLY AND SO CLOSE TO GOD;
BUT I'M STILL HUNGRY, LONELY, COLD
AND IN PAIN. DOES IT MATTER?
The church is open all day from dawn till dusk. SUNDAY MARCH 7TH 2002 SECOND SUNDAY OF LENT |
Counters this week: Jean and John Gray.
Next week: David Cook and Barbara Marshall.
First Holy Communion Prayer Companions: At out Mass last weekend the Prayer Companions promised to pray regularly for those preparing for their First Holy Communion. It's always a lovely, generous gesture and the links often endure long after the 'Big Day'. Who are they? Tom Bean Diana Ormiston, Luke Dearey Annie Everitt, Julia Lesny Phil Jackson, Justyna Lesny Pat Whincop, Eleanor McMillan Marian Hall, and Bethany Scibberas Dawn McMillan. (We'll all be praying for you also!).
Last Weekend's Crisis (at least it was one to me!): How can I thank everyone who stepped in, in one way or another, to help and support me? There were doctors queuing up to examine me, food parcels by the score, enough soup to launch a ship in, throat lozenges, lemons, honey, drinks (non-alcoholic), visits, telephone calls, Peter for leading the ecumenical service here on Sunday evening, the list goes on, you name it I got it. I apologise for being a man, for having such a low pain threshold, but this is how God made men! Anyway, hopefully I'm on the up as I write this on Thursday evening. I have to see my own doctor on Tuesday to see if he can find the cause of the problem. Let's hope it doesn't happen again, I think I've used all my dose of sympathy this past few days!
Why We Miss God: We are a largely godless society, according to a new survey which shows that Britain has one of the lowest levels of religious beliefs in the world. Just 46% of Britons say they believe in God, compared with 98% in Nigeria. It may not be just our immortal souls that have to pay. There is increasing evidence that people who participate in religious activity are healthier than those who keep God at arm's length. A study of 4,000 Americans conducted over four years found that those who attend church weekly have a 28% lower mortality rate than those who do not go. Another found that people who have religious belief tend to get over bouts of depression quicker. And research has shown that attending religious services is the lifestyle factor that best predicts longevity. The health benefit is not necessarily the result of belief itself. It stems from the support and sense of purpose and community that churchgoing gives people. It links with further research which shows that those who maintain close relationships and maintain social relationships with many people are happier, less likely to be depressed, and tend to live longer. Maintaining such social and community activities is hard to achieve in our increasingly fragmented society. We drive miles to the shops, see little of our neighbours and increasingly find recreation in isolating activities such as watching TV, playing video games and engaging in 'self' oriented therapies. Ironically, even innovations designed to make us healthier drive us apart. The Government's NHS Patient Choice initiative is likely to encourage us to travel further and further from our homes to use health services. The extent to which we have become emotional islands was alarmingly illustrated this week by a MORI poll which found that one adult in ten thinks that they are happier spending time with their computer than with their partner or a friend. many say that they pine for their computer when they are away from it. (The Times)
Holy Cross Sierra Leone Assistance Programme: Calling all computers, computer parts and computer software! "Are you under used or even under a bed, are you sat idle and growing old fast, do you long to be useful and make a contribution? Then why not think about a move to Sierra Leone where you can once again be useful, enjoy sunshine and bright faces all day long? For details of the scheme to support our sister parish in Freetown, please contact Brian on 07880 878522 (mobile).
Anniversaries this coming week:
Saturday Alwyn Drew (Christine Campbell's brother).
Sunday Sarah Woods-McConville (Tony and Shirley's daughter).
Monday Nicola Scopelliti (Peter and Rosaria's uncle) and Edward Berry (Pat Britton's father).
Wednesday Thomas Thomson (Harry's dad).
Thursday Ada Norton (Jim's mother).
Friday Thomas Gilson (Denis' dad), Josephine Codd and Peggy Radley.
Saturday Allen Harrison.
Sunday Stanley Lord (Tony's dad), Mary Shipley (M. Pidd's mother), John Campbell (Christine's husband) and Rose Dyas (Peter's mother).
Parish Website: Shirley and Tony inform me that the Parish Baptism Preparation page is now included. Have a look some time. Is there anything you feel should be included? Just let me know.
How to increase your giving for free! As the new tax year approaches, it seems like a good time to say thank you to all our existing Gift Aiders for your contributions over the last twelve months, and to give another plug to the Gift Aid scheme. If you are a tax payer, filling out just one simple form means that we can reclaim, from the Inland Revenue, up to 28p for every pound you give. There are two methods of donating which make it easy to keep track of your contributions: either setting up a standing order to transfer a fixed sum of money directly from your bank account to the church's at regular intervals, or using a set of envelopes to donate whatever you wish whenever you wish. Please get in touch if you would like more information.
From the lofty vantage of his pulpit the vicar announced, 'Today I shall discuss the milk of human kindness.' A weary voice sighed from amid the congregation, 'Let's hope it's condensed.'
CWL News: Their financial breakdown for 2003 reminds us just how much good they do. They donated £2,417.77 to non-League charities including Make a Wish, Amnesty, CAFOD, Oncology, McMillan, Autism, SVP and Stroke Rehab. They also donated £233.95 to League Charities. Most of that has come from you the parishioners at Holy Cross with your usual generosity. On behalf of the parish CWL can I thank you for always being there to help in any way.
Christening today: At noon today we welcome into the family of God here at Holy Cross, baby Lorna Kilkenny, daughter of new parishioners Paul and Fiona and sister to their other daughter, Catherine. They have moved onto Eppleworth Road recently. Congratulations to you all!
Elsie Murphy: "Dear Elsie, glad to hear that you are happy in your new 'home' but sad that you've moved away from us, even if it's only as far as Beverley. But when the weather gets a bit better, hopefully we'll be able to arrange transport for you to come back to Mass here, and also to the Lunch Club and CWL meetings. Home is where your heart is, and your heart is with us Elsie. The front row isn't quite the same without you!" You can write to Elsie care of: Beverley Grange Nursing Home, Lockwood Rd. Molescroft, Beverley. HU17 9GQ.
Recent Birthdays: Annmarie Harrison had her 'Big 40' recently. Sheila Levett had her birthday last week. Clare Percival celebrated her 21st recently also. Fr. Tony's birthday was this Saturday and mine was on Friday. In fact it was the first day that I had begun to pick up after being ill and the lovely cards, gifts and thoughts were a better tonic than any antibiotics!
Lunch Club: I'm told that at the last but one Club John 'the tramp' turned up and was invited in by one of the helpers much to the consternation of some of the visitors. The question was asked, 'Why's he here?' And the answer given was, 'Because he's hungry!' We must be careful that we don't become 'exclusive'. And by the way, John went and sat down at the farthest end of the room, near no one!
Lunch Club Extra Peter Dyas: Nearly RIP! At the end of the meal, Peter went outside and decided to sit down in the sun, but on the bench against the wall of the church. It collapsed under him, and him also recovering from his knee operation! Our sincerest apologies, Peter. Remember, we do have wheelchairs if you'd like to borrow one! Only Joking! Another elderly lady approached the same bench but Peter came riding to the rescue and prevented her sitting down on it. Needless to say the offending bench has been relegated to the rubbish heap!
Sick Parishioners: Please keep in your prayers: Sandra and John, Dorothy as she awaits news of whether she may need chemotherapy, Linda Gillard, Mary and Paddy Falvey, Cynthia Smith, John Gavin, Betty Nicholls, Betty Eagan, Louisa Brierley.
Jesus Christ Superstar: St. Mary's College is putting on this production on Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday of this week. Tickets are priced at £4 and £3 and for the first three evenings should be available on the door. The show begins at 7.30 p.m. in the college hall.
Stress Management: (from Leo and Joan Murphy)
Mentally picture yourself near a stream. Birds are chirping in the crisp, cool mountain air.
Nothing can bother you here. No one knows this secret place.
You are in total seclusion from that place called the 'world'.
The soothing sound of a gentle waterfall fills the air with a cascade of serenity.
The water is so clear that you can easily make out the face of the person whose head you are holding under the water.
There now... feeling better?
Area Station Mass: Last week we gathered at St. Vincent's along with the Bishop. This week it's the turn of St. Anthony's to host our Lent Station Mass and it will be on Tuesday at 7.15 p.m. There will be no evening Mass here that evening. There will be transport from here leaving at around 6.50 p.m.
Ecumenical Lent Service: This Thursday at 7.30 p.m. we are at Zion Church and this week's theme is 'Conflict'. We had a goodly turnout last Thursday at the Methodist Church. Keep it up!
Hull Savoyards: They will be performing here in the church on Thursday March 25th at 7.30 p.m. They've been here twice before, to great acclaim and we certainly anticipate another very enjoyable evening. Please spread the word among your friends. Tickets which include refreshments are priced at £5. The proceeds will be split equally between us and them.
LIFE: Next weekend a speaker from LIFE, Peter Ainscough, will speak at both Masses on the work of the charity. LIFE would like to recruit new members, including non-active ones, for its very important work locally.
Prayer Circle Intention for Friday: "We pray for the work of LIFE in spreading the Christian message of 'care for one's neighbour from conception to the grave.'
Bequest: This week Holy Cross received a very generous donation of £2,000 from the estate of Maeve Brennan. Please keep her in your prayers. God bless her.
Abject Apologies: From the March edition of St. Mary's Parish Magazine. "We are informed that another Cottingham Church is open every day of the week from dawn to dusk, Holy Cross. That is good. We are sorry if we have caused misinformation, but being Cottingham you are sure to be corrected, and we were." I hope they are still looking forward to my visit there to preach at Evensong on Sunday March 21st at 6.30 p.m. We'll see!
Alpha News etc. St. Augustine's Catholic Church in Barton-on-Humber has no resident priest and are doing an Alpha Course at the moment. Diana and some of the Alpha Group in Cottingham are helping with the course every Wednesday evening until Easter. Please pray for the Holy Spirit Weekend, March 12-14 and for the course as a whole. Isn't it great to be able to share talents with others?
Full Gospel Businessmen: There will be a coffee/tea evening at the Jarvis Hotel on Monday March 8th at 7.30 p.m. There will be two speakers, one for the men Alan Rees from Germany and Janine Stellatos from Hollybush Fellowship. £2.50
Prayer Intercession Book: It's there for you to use near the altar. The Prayer Group which meets in the Upper Room after morning Mass on Thursday, uses the Book as the centre for their prayers.
St. Patrick's Day Wednesday March 17th. I'll be reviewing the newspapres on Radio Humberside at around 7.35 a.m. on that day. You are then invited to a special celebration Mass at St. Charles' at 12.10 p.m. where shamrock will be blessed and distributed.
Hospital Patients and the Data Protection Act: Owing to the requirements of the Act, hospital chaplains are no longer given a list of the Roman Catholic patients. If you are admitted to hospital as a patient you should make sure that the hospital staff record your religion and note your explicit request that the Roman Catholic Chaplain be informed. If you know of a Catholic who has been admitted, you could either inform your parish priest or the hospital chaplain directly.
Parish Volunteer List: To fulfil the requirements of the Child Protection Act, we need to have a list of all the people in the parish who work with either young people or vulnerable adults. If you visit the sick or housebound, bing Holy Communion to homes etc. we have to know and record your names. Nothing else will probably need doing but it's for your protection. There is a list in the porch for names and the 'job' you do in the parish. Our parish representatives are Jan Woodmansey and Christine Pike.
Mass Intentions for the coming week:
Saturday 6.30 Joan and Harry Williams: 60th Wedding Anniv.
Sunday 10.00 Ria O'Neil (RIP)
Monday 9.00 Margaret and Roy Littlewood
Tuesday 7.15 St. Anthony's Elsie Murphy
Wednesday 9.00 Tom Middleton (A)
Thursday 9.00 Special Intention
Friday 9.00 Vin McKenna (Brennan)
Saturday 9.00 The Parishioners
Saturday 6.30 David Eric Ledger
Sunday 10.00 Martin Murphy.
Some time when you're feeling important
some time when your ego's in bloom
some time when you take it for granted
you're the best qualified man in the room,
some time when you feel you are going to leave an unfillable hole
just follow this simple instruction
and see how it humbles your soul.
Take a bucket and fill it with water,
put your hands in it up to the wrists,
pull them out and the hole that remains
is the measure of how much you'll be missed!
You may splash all you please when you enter
you may stir up the water galore,
but stop, and you'll find in a minute
that it looks just the same as before.
The moral of this is quite simple,
do just the best that you can,
be proud of yourself, but remember:
There is no indispensable man (or woman).